But while that's true, all of the fat women in my life have at least one story of men explaining to them that they could never date because of her fatness.
None of us have a hard time getting dates, finding love, or sex, whatever it is we happen to be looking for.
I knew that there was science to support the fact that men love a woman with a tummy, but I wanted to hear from the other side.
In our culture, people are taught, unfortunately, that being fat is bad. A fat person is just as worthy of love, respect, and kindness as any other person.
I've always wanted to know what goes on inside the heads of men who refuse to date a woman just because she is fat.
They often come into a relationship believing that my past partners have been abusive or unfaithful, or that my current partner isn't interested in sex and that's why we're poly.
Basically, that he's arrived to save me from my terrible, sad, fat life.